Hi, and thank you for responding to my post:http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/dating-advice/ask-dating-expert/36711-my-eharmony-story-what-did-i-do-wrong.html-use asked if my ex was not like this before. the answer was no, this was the 1st time me seeing her like this. we never went to fancy places to eat or had me serveher, ate at the coffee table and watched t.v. when eating dinner so this serve me and order for me never happened at other restaurants we went to. No fights or arguements either before this so that is what makes it so tuff. now now getting any closure only has made it worse.

You're welcome. I read almost every thread, so I luck out in catching stuff that would otherwise fly under the radar.

Thanks for the post...things are very good with me, hope they are the same for you =)

Thanks for the d'day wishes... when is yours so I can say the same on the appropriate day :)

Thank you for the birthday wishes! My son has become the designated family cake baker, and he is quite good at it!