You’re welcome Ellie. You’ll find that there are some hot-button issues on the boards here- weight, attractiveness, and income… basically anything people can take as a gender stereotype. Kindly don’t be discouraged by these. There’s a lot of hurt pent up in nearly all of us, and sometimes the match can be very far away but we’ll still flare up. That’s people in general for you. But people also have a resilience and contrariness that adversity just can’t keep down. I mean, look at us- most of us have been rejected, time and time again for entirely foolish reasons. And we still try, even though each rejection is a wound to our emotions! That’s courage. Be of light heart, and guard those hopes well. They’ll be of good use to you, one day…

Hi ellie, I like your avatar - I am going through a flower phase... :)! I guess we have to be patient. Candace

Thanks for your kinds words...it's nice to hear I'm not the only one having a rough time with online dating...it's almost just as bad as dating in real life LOL