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Bouffy ...in his own words.

Bouffy isn't as easy to see through as you think.

Updated more than a month ago.

Gender: Male
Age: 28
Zodiac: Pisces
Marital Status: Single
Occupation: Crane Operator
Location: Sault Ste. Marie ON
Interests: Gaming, Sports, Music, Work, Martial Arts, Movies, Relaxing, Outdoors, BBQ's, Women, Meditation, Reading/Writing. I enjoy private pursuits which are perpetual. Knowing there is an end to something I enjoy takes the fun out of getting good at it. I'm not exactly a puzzle doing kind of person. I prefer open-ended writing.
Religion: Spiritual, but not affiliated with a religious group
Political Views: Moderate

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    Chicagogirl8 wrote

    at December 07, 2009 04:32 PM

    It is refreshing to see such a young guy make such insightful comments. Thanks for your thoughts. They are incredibly thoughtful, insightful, sincere, and genuine. Good Luck in your search!

    DreamingOfJustice wrote

    at August 18, 2009 03:09 PM

    {{ Blessed Be }} All of my dearest friends are not Pagan, however,,,I am very tolerant of christians,,,gigglin...I have been to the Soo years ago,,me parents and I drove through the area,,I like to road-trip whilst on holiday,,last summer it was through the US south. Ending with a vacation in Miami...have you been south? But there are plenty of very nice beaches all along the US east coast. Good seeing you round here,,,more tolerance is needed towards heavier-set females,,,altho I am slender-made, beauty manifests in many forms. Men with skills of discernment know this and benefit! cheerio

    Chiara wrote

    at August 16, 2009 10:15 PM

    Dear one, I am continually impressed by the amazing comments you post! I just read the one you posted about overweight women. Can you tell me why I seem not to meet men like you? I know they are out there. Instead, I am matched with men who either, 1. are turned off by my spiritual path or 2. men who see my photos and close me because I am not attractive. You obviously know, God does not make trash. Duh! We are made in HIS image and likeness. Yes, we are unique but still beautiful. Sure, it is imperative to take care of one's self and dress properly. Yet, why are there men AND women who will only consider "seeing" a person if they are drop-dead gorgeous model-types? Grrrh! Once again I say, let the superficial, materialistic people be wi9th each other and let the rest of us be at peace and find happiness with a REAL person of valor and integrity. What are your thoughts? I hope you are well.

    DreamingOfJustice wrote

    at August 16, 2009 07:43 PM

    {{ Blessings and Light }}....great posts, specially in 'she's much heavier in person'...Hope no-one minds a PAGAN posting a cheery hello on your page! gigglin

    Chiara wrote

    at July 31, 2009 05:26 PM

    I just read your comment from 2 days ago, "HELP Warning.." It is great to see a man encouraging a woman to get out of a obviously unhealthy/bad relationship, since it seems nothing else can be done and supporting her with kind words. You can't be all that bad! ;-)


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