They don't call it a Job for nothin'

This should be a good thread! I have lots of stories to offer regarding past lovers.

One gf would only go to the point where I started to moan and then she would stop, move to her back and wanted me to missionary her. She, only did the bare minimum. If you don't like doing it, we'll pick up on that. If you act like it's a chore or some sort of rare reward because we've been a good dog...we'll pick up on that. Passion is a turn on.

Everyone likes something a little different. You must calibrate what you are doing to how your parner is responding. Sometimes a little fast or slow etc.

One gf was very good. She gave the feeling that she was deepthroating me. She would move her mouth down and apply pressure with her tounge on the underside of my shaft. Once she couldn't fit anymore in her mouth, she would continue going down my shaft with her thumb. She then would rub her thumb back upwards to her tongue and then take over with her tongue. I didn't know she wasn't deepthroating me until she told me what she was doing. I wish she hadn't told me what she was doing. Women who can deepthroat are a rare treat.

Don't brag. I had a gf who told me how much she loved giving bj's (actions speak louder than words). This was after I had slept with her, but before she ever gave me one. She told me she had a lot of practice in the past year (TMI) and she's became really good at it. When she finally did give me one, it wasn't anything to brag about. She could only fit 1/4 of it in her mouth and she didn't take communication well.

If someone is moaning or giving a positive remark; then, you're on the right track and maybe you shouldn't change what's working. Some people don't take well to suggestions or teachings. Mindreading never works out.

One gf loved me going down on her. So we would 69. She would get so excited that she would stop going down on me and just keep me in her mouth. She would breath really fast and moan. The shear vibration would drive me crazy! I would always finish after or when she came. Subtle moaning is a +++

I'd also say the ending is very important and that's when you shouldn't stop. The ones that didn't like to swallow usually changed their tune when I came. They would move their mouth away and use their hand instead. It's sort of like trading a Ferrari in for a Audi. If you don't like to swallow, perhaps change what you are doing a minute or so before your guy cums, not during. GF 1 (above) had the timing down. When she knew I would come relatively soon, she would let me stick it between her boobs and play there before finishing.

Rub behind the scrotum while you are going down. That's like the very base of the shaft.
Also, the shaft isn't fragile and I like a little pressure sometimes.

Lastly...
Keep all animals out of the room. Once when I was beginning to cum, I started getting very vocal. My gf's dog jumped up and started licking my face. Not good! It would have been fine if the dog started 1 minute before or after...but during?! Very disturbing.

Darn...
I got modded. I like to stand when getting them. I like the shaft to be pulled downwards a little bit; so, it's at a 90 degree angle or so.

I had one that would massage her breasts and rub her nipples when she went down on me. A massive turn on!