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Is there any difference in the following subject lines when EH sends an email about my new matches:

1. Meet "x" your new eharmony match.
2. Get to know your new match "x".
3. Find out more about your new match.

Just wonderin'....
- November 2nd, 2009, 06:13 pm
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Nope.
I think they just do it for varieties sake.
- November 2nd, 2009, 06:18 pm
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Do they still send these emails? When I was first a member in 2007, I got one for every new match. Then they became erratic, and since I've been active again (a week now) I have not gotten any emails at all (new matches, communications, etc.).
- November 2nd, 2009, 06:22 pm
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melman wrote :
Do they still send these emails? When I was first a member in 2007, I got one for every new match. Then they became erratic, and since I've been active again (a week now) I have not gotten any emails at all (new matches, communications, etc.).
Maybe you shut it off by accident..I think I turned off my receiving eH emails..
- November 2nd, 2009, 06:34 pm
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I don't see any setting for doing that. Like I said, the matches began to get very irregular, then they just sort of stopped. And I use a dedicated email account for eH, and I'm sure they weren't going into a junk folder or anything like that.
- November 2nd, 2009, 06:42 pm
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melman wrote :
I don't see any setting for doing that. Like I said, the matches began to get very irregular, then they just sort of stopped. And I use a dedicated email account for eH, and I'm sure they weren't going into a junk folder or anything like that.
You're correct. You can't turn match communications off. Only the icebreakers and special offers.. I do turn emails off if I'm on other sites..
- November 2nd, 2009, 06:55 pm
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melman wrote :
Do they still send these emails? When I was first a member in 2007, I got one for every new match. Then they became erratic, and since I've been active again (a week now) I have not gotten any emails at all (new matches, communications, etc.).
Do you have eHarmony communication going to your junk folder?
- November 3rd, 2009, 08:37 am
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I know of no difference between the various e-mails they send to introduce your new matches. Sometimes it will just say "Meet your new match" without having her name.
- November 3rd, 2009, 08:39 am
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My favorite is when you receive a notification 'Crazy Belle just sent you a communication' then you go to EH just to find out that she just closed you out. lol.
- November 3rd, 2009, 10:05 am
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PY_2 wrote :
My favorite is when you receive a notification 'Crazy Belle just sent you a communication' then you go to EH just to find out that she just closed you out. lol.
This shouldn't happen.
EH does NOT send notification emails to you for Closes.

Now, you don't know what your Match did beforehand.

For example, I could see someone doing a "Photo Nudge", which WOULD generate an email, and then they would do a Close with a "Closed - No Photo" reason., which wouldn't generate an email.

If they were to do this in quick succession, it would appear to you that EH sent you an email for a Close...

Also, I suppose they could have changed their mind after sending you a communication, and turned around and Closed you.
- November 3rd, 2009, 11:24 am
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