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jayjay wrote :
The thing is...literally almost everyone thinks they're a 'good man' or 'good woman'....so I think your system needs to rely upon something other than self evaluation or input. Maybe people's profiles would have to be filled out by matches who have previously dated them. Now there's an interesting idea.
Maybe there could be a section for your former dates could put testimonials.
- October 26th, 2009, 07:14 am
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I just need one Orange Arrow that says "the one" on it
- October 26th, 2009, 07:17 am
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yes because it leaves an icky blue mark on my tongue
huh. that never happens to me.

are you a troll or an alien or somethin?
- October 26th, 2009, 09:01 am
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How nice. I command that a large black XXX float over your head.
There is already one stamped on my arm:
(Unfortunately, the beer bottle was edited out of my hand from the dating site)

- October 26th, 2009, 09:48 am
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Hawt. *batseyes*

anyway, I'd like a resume and at least 2 references from exes before a date.
- October 26th, 2009, 10:07 am
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nightling wrote :
huh. that never happens to me.

are you a troll or an alien or somethin?
Neither
- October 26th, 2009, 11:10 am
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I think a good user-friendly system for finding my 'dream man' would come with a detailed instruction manual. That way I could read about what really pi$$es him off (and consider whether this is likely to occur anytime soon) and also what gets him in the mood. Also, the instruction manual would explain his advanced features. Or, if he has no advanced features, I could know this early on, and decide to love him for the good but simple man that he is. Sometimes less is more.
programmable for emm special operations?
- October 26th, 2009, 11:35 am
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programmable for emm special operations?
Sadly we have no advance features...just fast forward and eject!
- October 26th, 2009, 11:45 am
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So does the orange indicator say they are good forever? Does the orange indicator know what kind of person the man or woman will be under a multitude of situations?
- October 26th, 2009, 12:00 pm
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stevex wrote :
So does the orange indicator say they are good forever? Does the orange indicator know what kind of person the man or woman will be under a multitude of situations?
Maybe the orange arrows also need an expiration date.
- October 26th, 2009, 12:06 pm
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