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rix wrote :
What to say when you get rejected in a night club:

"I didn't ask if you want to dance. I said you look fat in those pants."
How are the rehearsals going?
- August 12th, 2009, 02:51 am
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What to say after you've been rejected. This is an easy one! I've been on a couple dates with an eharm match and I'm considering "poofing" on her since I can't come up with something to tell her.
- August 12th, 2009, 03:34 am
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rix wrote :
What to say when you get rejected in a night club:

"I didn't ask if you want to dance. I said you look fat in those pants."
now this is comedy. i love it
- August 12th, 2009, 05:03 am
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op the problem when some men ask out is sometimes they take a nice decline as a "maybe"

if i say " aww i'm really flattered, but nooo" *smile* and they think because you are being nice to him that you really are interested. I wouldnt take a more curt no personally at all.
- August 12th, 2009, 05:11 am
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rocchio wrote :
What to say after you've been rejected. This is an easy one! I've been on a couple dates with an eharm match and I'm considering "poofing" on her since I can't come up with something to tell her.
Oh, how I looove that word! It makes me laugh every time I see it!
- August 12th, 2009, 05:28 am
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IcecreamMoon wrote :
Next what?
next date, babe, shagg, whatever ... move on ... big deal. I guess it is sometimes relief as it saves you having to say something (but you can't say that, as it is rude). How about " No biggee. All the best on your quest."
- August 12th, 2009, 06:12 am
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You are doing a woman a favor to invite her on a date. It is the favor to ask her, to treat her, and to give her the chance of getting to know you.

Fear is not an appropriate thing to feel.

Merely for having asked, you have given her a gift. She should honor it, as should you.

Some women will legitimately say “no.” That some have been rude is their issue. Just keep asking – while refining your technique.
Doing a woman a favor? Really? Wow!
- August 12th, 2009, 06:45 am
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Doing a woman a favor? Really? Wow!
Calling it a favor may be taking it a bit far, but there has to be some balance to the raging sense of entitlement that many women exhibit.
- August 12th, 2009, 06:50 am
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FengShuiBlackBelt wrote :
Calling it a favor may be taking it a bit far, but there has to be some balance to the raging sense of entitlement that many women exhibit.
Broken record?
- August 12th, 2009, 07:16 am
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Broken record?
Have I said that before?

I must have old FCisms lodged in my brain.
- August 12th, 2009, 07:38 am
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