Advice and Support from Thousands of Users Just Like You

Dating First-date jitters? Hoping for a second date? Moving on to a full blown relationship? Share your journey and advice here.

Reply
Page 8 of 14 « First 6 7 8 9 10 Last »
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Shads Shads is offline
Shads's Avatar

Shads is living life....and getting in trouble along the way! LOL

Enthusiast

Join Date: Jan 2009

Posts: 621

See profile

Honestgetsdishonest wrote :
Dealclosers. Black and white. When you meet in person. Do you like me, or not. Open the door and date ONLY me to see where it goes, or close the door and say "I am not into you".

So, I have to say HONESTY, bold and to the point.

For example, I like a girl to say:

"Our conversation on the phone was great, but now that I have met you in person, I know there is no chemistry at all. Sorry I wasted your time, let me pick up the check".

or

"Our conversation on the phone was great, and now that we have met in person I would like to see you again and see where this path leads us."



You should add after, " and see where this path leads, us."...

", let me pick up the check."
- August 10th, 2009, 08:55 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#71   Reply With Quote
SavannahGal SavannahGal is offline
SavannahGal's Avatar

SavannahGal is at work.

Newbie

Join Date: Aug 2009

Posts: 45

See profile

AsianFusion wrote :
Tall, dark, handsome, smart, weathly, generous and has a good personality . . . I want it all!
And since you are in a relationship, can we assume that you have it all?
- August 10th, 2009, 11:32 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#72   Reply With Quote
SavannahGal SavannahGal is offline
SavannahGal's Avatar

SavannahGal is at work.

Newbie

Join Date: Aug 2009

Posts: 45

See profile

So many great dealmakers have been listed already and I agree.

Also, when he is willing to admit to his flaws and share things about his life that might have been unhappy or embarrassing times--trusting in me to be vulnerable and not just show me the good stuff.
- August 10th, 2009, 11:39 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#73   Reply With Quote
lil_lamb lil_lamb is online now
lil_lamb's Avatar

Veteran

Join Date: Dec 2008

Posts: 1,338

See profile

simplemind wrote :
He tells me stories about himself, his childhood, his brothers and sisters and friends--openly.
oh yes. i agree. i like people who admit they have a mother.
- August 10th, 2009, 11:57 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#74   Reply With Quote
IcecreamMoon IcecreamMoon is offline
IcecreamMoon's Avatar

IcecreamMoon Nothing to see here at all...

Virtuoso

Join Date: May 2009

Posts: 2,848

See profile

lil_lamb wrote :
oh yes. i agree. i like people who admit they have a mother.
Where do you find those?
- August 11th, 2009, 12:46 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#75   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

AsianFusion AsianFusion is offline
AsianFusion's Avatar

AsianFusion has gone fishing again!

Enthusiast

Join Date: Nov 2008

Posts: 958

See profile

SavannahGal wrote :
And since you are in a relationship, can we assume that you have it all?
Pretty much . . . with minor substitution.
- August 11th, 2009, 08:07 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#76   Reply With Quote
PinkFlumingo PinkFlumingo is offline
PinkFlumingo's Avatar

PinkFlumingo knows her coworkers will run around like orangutans when she is on vacation

Quick Study

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 92

See profile

FengShuiBlackBelt wrote :
Oh, found one. Some of you won't like what this page says.

Althouse: Extreme male brain.
Hi FengShui - its me again!

Your link was spot on! It also could explain my highly functioning Aspy.

My dealmaker: a highly developed intelligent sense of humor (and looking completely dumbstruck happy when he is around me doesn't hurt either).
- August 11th, 2009, 01:32 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#77   Reply With Quote
FengShuiBlackBelt FengShuiBlackBelt is offline
FengShuiBlackBelt's Avatar

FengShuiBlackBelt can't win for losing.

Quick Study

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 158

See profile

PinkFlumingo wrote :
Hi FengShui - its me again!

Your link was spot on! It also could explain my highly functioning Aspy.

My dealmaker: a highly developed intelligent sense of humor (and looking completely dumbstruck happy when he is around me doesn't hurt either).
Are you stalking me?

Just kidding! I really wouldn't mind if you did, actually.
- August 11th, 2009, 03:17 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#78   Reply With Quote
MelinCali MelinCali is offline
MelinCali's Avatar

MelinCali is very busy!

Power Poster

Join Date: Nov 2008

Posts: 7,132

See profile

AsianFusion wrote :
Pretty much . . . with minor substitution.
Hmmmm.....what would that minor substitution be?

I'm thinking wealthy...you substituted loaded with carries loaded weapons?
Last edited by MelinCali; August 11th, 2009 at 03:25 pm. Reason: I can't spell today
- August 11th, 2009, 03:24 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#79   Reply With Quote
D_Lion D_Lion is offline
D_Lion's Avatar

D_Lion - Ladies want to wring my neck - you have been warned!

Sage

Join Date: Aug 2008

Posts: 15,352

See profile

MelinCali wrote :
I'm thinking wealthy...you substituted loaded with carries loaded weapons?

Maybe a good thing, the way the economy is going.

Soon, we will have 4 people working 120 hours / week at Goldman Sachs, each worth $2 trillion, and 300 million people out of work, each mad at someone.

I’m thinking, it makes sense to be armed.
- August 11th, 2009, 03:50 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#80   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

Reply
Page 8 of 14 « First 6 7 8 9 10 Last »

Bookmarks

« Language Snobbery | Array | Hitting a Brick Wall »
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“What's everyone doing tonight since everyone seems to have better weather than me. I'm going over to a friends for dinner and a movie. I think we are going to watch Freedom Writers. My NCAA ... ” – VB_Girl

Join the “Saturdat Night Roll Call - Newbie Edition !!!” discussion

“after thinking about this more... height, financial status, emotional health, and smoking are the "filters" that I use... married/not married, children/no children, "good" looks, specific height, ... ” – jussmile

Join the “Filtering Out Mr. or Ms. Right” discussion

“Nova I think we are watching another upset in the making! NO IA Yikes - I certainly hope not!!! I have Kansas winning it all. ” – VB_Girl

Join the “March Madness” discussion

“I didn't feel this way before my last girlfriend. My last girlfriend was fat. She had long natural blonde hair and blue-eyes though, and she worked in a plus-size clothing boutique downtown. She ... ” – tenderheart105

Join the “My favorite opening paragraph from a match thus far.” discussion

“?????????.......she doesn't want you to be close to your mom because she doesn't have one? I'm sorry. I feel bad that she lost her mother, but that is a little psychotic. Along with some of the other ... ” – newbie40something

Join the “Am I In the Wrong?” discussion

“I have been racking my brain and the only thing I can come up with is people who are late (without a valid reason).” – Mokkesofie

Join the “Pet Peeves!!” discussion

“notions nothing” – k9force

Join the “Game: Change one letter” discussion

“Uh, you're going to have to be more clear with regard to what you mean. I'm referring to the process of getting to know someone and building a relationship, whether it started online or in ... ” – jussmile

Join the “Dating for FUN vs. Dating for Relationship...” discussion



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:44 pm.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.3.0