Marooned in the 80s? A Guide to Rediscovering your Style

eHarmony Advice is asking you to take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. Is your style, well, not of this decade? If yes, we can bring you up to speed with a few simple suggestions.


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Ladies, it’s time to get real. Are you still sporting the same haircut that you had in high school? Are your jeans festooned with rhinestones, a series of zippers or neon splatter paint? Does your overall appearance represent another decade? Another decade when, perhaps, you thought you looked really good?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, your look is officially fossilized. Before you get offended and click away in a huff, know that your situation is not unique. We’ve all been there. In fact, it took the author of this article a few years to get over the straight hair trend circa 1998. Hey, we know it’s hard to bid some trends good-bye.

But since you’ve taken the leap to start online dating, your appearance should represent your modern sensibilities. We aren’t suggesting that you run out and spend a lot of money on a dramatic makeover or hire a personal shopper and/or stylist. Instead, we are asking that you take a long hard look at yourself and ask, “Do I really look as good as I could?” If you have to admit that the answer is no, hang tight because we have some insights for you.

The Hair Don’t

Apart from your clothing, your hair is the easiest thing to change about your appearance in the shortest amount of time. Many women cling to the same haircut for years, arguing that the style is “easy” (read: familiar). Now, there’s a big difference between sporting a classic haircut with variations on length and color (think of the French) and a coif that screams “period piece.” Example: if you have a “big” perm, bangs that stand up only with the aid of hairspray, or a feathered, bleached mane, your look is outdated, not classic.

So, how do you change it up? If you haven’t been to the hairdresser in a while, make an appointment. If you hit the salon regularly, either ask the professional to alter the routine or venture somewhere else. We realize that going to an unfamiliar salon to have an unknown person cut your hair is scary. But don’t you want an updated ’do? Yes, you do.

Head to the salon armed with a couple of different style ideas and talk with the hairdresser about what you think would suit you. Remember, hairdressers are there to help, so use them as a sounding board. A good hairdresser will be able to recommend a cut that works with your lifestyle, the shape of your face and the products to maintain that look. While you're there, ask about color too. If you've ever wanted to see if blondes really have more fun, why not try now?

If you aren’t absolutely sure you’re ready to make the leap, start with a consultation. That way you’ll get some one-on-one face time and you won’t feel guilty if you bail out at the last minute.

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This article is great, but what about the MEN who are stuck in the 80s. Please address the ones that think that at age 50, the rockers look is still in. LET IT GO!!!

- July 04, 2008 03:14 PM

Richmond, CA

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A few coworkers and I were discussing this very thing over lunch today! A trend I've noticed over the past few years that I can't wait to disappear are women's shorts having 1-2" inseams. What ever happened to mid-thigh length???
- February 20, 2008 09:16 PM

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The trend I can't wait to see die is current, where women's camisoles look like lingerie. I've just never been able to get used to that. It looks like the person is walking around in their pajamas.

I know I need to update my wardrobe, but I've never been good at shopping, and it all seems so overwhelming.

- February 19, 2008 09:29 PM