Ladies, it’s time to get real. Are you still sporting the same haircut that you had in high school? Are your jeans festooned with rhinestones, a series of zippers or neon splatter paint? Does your overall appearance represent another decade? Another decade when, perhaps, you thought you looked really good?
But since you’ve taken the leap to start online dating, your appearance should represent your modern sensibilities. We aren’t suggesting that you run out and spend a lot of money on a dramatic makeover or hire a personal shopper and/or stylist. Instead, we are asking that you take a long hard look at yourself and ask, “Do I really look as good as I could?” If you have to admit that the answer is no, hang tight because we have some insights for you.
The Hair Don’t
Apart from your clothing, your hair is the easiest thing to change about your appearance in the shortest amount of time. Many women cling to the same haircut for years, arguing that the style is “easy” (read: familiar). Now, there’s a big difference between sporting a classic haircut with variations on length and color (think of the French) and a coif that screams “period piece.” Example: if you have a “big” perm, bangs that stand up only with the aid of hairspray, or a feathered, bleached mane, your look is outdated, not classic.
So, how do you change it up? If you haven’t been to the hairdresser in a while, make an appointment. If you hit the salon regularly, either ask the professional to alter the routine or venture somewhere else. We realize that going to an unfamiliar salon to have an unknown person cut your hair is scary. But don’t you want an updated ’do? Yes, you do.
Head to the salon armed with a couple of different style ideas and talk with the hairdresser about what you think would suit you. Remember, hairdressers are there to help, so use them as a sounding board. A good hairdresser will be able to recommend a cut that works with your lifestyle, the shape of your face and the products to maintain that look. While you're there, ask about color too. If you've ever wanted to see if blondes really have more fun, why not try now?
If you aren’t absolutely sure you’re ready to make the leap, start with a consultation. That way you’ll get some one-on-one face time and you won’t feel guilty if you bail out at the last minute.
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