Marooned in the 80s? A Guide to Rediscovering your Style

eHarmony Advice is asking you to take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. Is your style, well, not of this decade? If yes, we can bring you up to speed with a few simple suggestions.

Marooned in the 80s? A Guide to Rediscovering your Style
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Ladies, it’s time to get real. Are you still sporting the same haircut that you had in high school? Are your jeans festooned with rhinestones, a series of zippers or neon splatter paint? Does your overall appearance represent another decade? Another decade when, perhaps, you thought you looked really good?

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If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, your look is officially fossilized. Before you get offended and click away in a huff, know that your situation is not unique. We’ve all been there. In fact, it took the author of this article a few years to get over the straight hair trend circa 1998. Hey, we know it’s hard to bid some trends good-bye.

But since you’ve taken the leap to start online dating, your appearance should represent your modern sensibilities. We aren’t suggesting that you run out and spend a lot of money on a dramatic makeover or hire a personal shopper and/or stylist. Instead, we are asking that you take a long hard look at yourself and ask, “Do I really look as good as I could?” If you have to admit that the answer is no, hang tight because we have some insights for you.

The Hair Don’t

Apart from your clothing, your hair is the easiest thing to change about your appearance in the shortest amount of time. Many women cling to the same haircut for years, arguing that the style is “easy” (read: familiar). Now, there’s a big difference between sporting a classic haircut with variations on length and color (think of the French) and a coif that screams “period piece.” Example: if you have a “big” perm, bangs that stand up only with the aid of hairspray, or a feathered, bleached mane, your look is outdated, not classic.

So, how do you change it up? If you haven’t been to the hairdresser in a while, make an appointment. If you hit the salon regularly, either ask the professional to alter the routine or venture somewhere else. We realize that going to an unfamiliar salon to have an unknown person cut your hair is scary. But don’t you want an updated ’do? Yes, you do.

Head to the salon armed with a couple of different style ideas and talk with the hairdresser about what you think would suit you. Remember, hairdressers are there to help, so use them as a sounding board. A good hairdresser will be able to recommend a cut that works with your lifestyle, the shape of your face and the products to maintain that look. While you're there, ask about color too. If you've ever wanted to see if blondes really have more fun, why not try now?

If you aren’t absolutely sure you’re ready to make the leap, start with a consultation. That way you’ll get some one-on-one face time and you won’t feel guilty if you bail out at the last minute.

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Some of us in the minority do... But don't say anything because it would be hypocritical (we're human too). And 'pon yonder article... I'm confused. Did Cosmo invade eha? But, then, I'm a man, and know bubkus about fashion. I bumble along in my white tees and jeans (work), dull earth tone shirts and dark slacks when I'm... slacking. Haven't really changed my stile in nearly a decade. Perhaps *that's* why I'm single?! *thunks forehead* Who knew? *grin*
I'm going to disagree with you here, dearest, but only because some of us in the minoity almost know what some other ones of us (in the same minority) are going to say, if only based on instinct. So, some of you can only concentrate on the expression of the opinion, rather than the opinion itself. And I like that too because expressions can be powerful... And yes, my dear, sometimes some of you even correct some of us, but you do so in such a tactful and elaboratively expressive manner that it becomes a whole new kind of pleasure to read and savor... And you are not a Human, you are a Lunatic! How many times do I need to remind you of that? And I love having you as my right hand in the Brigade. So, please stick to the secret Lunatic's code, stop thumping that precious head of yours, and have some chocolate ice cream instead. You may also sprinkle it lightly with hazelnuts, put a cherry on top and fishish it off with a splash of Kahlua! Enjoy! :)

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This sums up the article pretty neatly in my mind, but ony because neither make any sense to me at all... :rolleyes: An article on 80's fashion without a full section on shoulder pad applications?! Come on, people! How can anyone believe that? And why discard of the uniform if it makes you feel sexy and comfortable. Just re-accessorize it every once in a while, and add some spikey heels on an occasion, just to add to that feeling of sexyness! ;) And discard the unprofessional self-help advice, please! My study of Garbage Removal says it all... And Froggie, were you afraid to misspell Testarossa? Just let go of the spell check and rely on associative memory function. And btw, most people never notice occasional spelling mistakes if they concentrate on the meaning of what you are trying to convey :cool:
Some of us in the minority do... But don't say anything because it would be hypocritical (we're human too). And 'pon yonder article... I'm confused. Did Cosmo invade eha? But, then, I'm a man, and know bubkus about fashion. I bumble along in my white tees and jeans (work), dull earth tone shirts and dark slacks when I'm... slacking. Haven't really changed my stile in nearly a decade. Perhaps *that's* why I'm single?! *thunks forehead* Who knew? *grin*

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[FONT=Arial]Hi, which is more “retro,” a Ferrari Testarossa or an Eddie Lawson replica superbike?
This sums up the article pretty neatly in my mind, but ony because neither make any sense to me at all... :rolleyes: An article on 80's fashion without a full section on shoulder pad applications?! Come on, people! How can anyone believe that? And why discard of the uniform if it makes you feel sexy and comfortable. Just re-accessorize it every once in a while, and add some spikey heels on an occasion, just to add to that feeling of sexyness! ;) And discard the unprofessional self-help advice, please! My study of Garbage Removal says it all... And Froggie, were you afraid to misspell Testarossa? Just let go of the spell check and rely on associative memory function. And btw, most people never notice occasional spelling mistakes if they concentrate on the meaning of what you are trying to convey :cool:
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