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Mapping Out that First Couple's Trip

A good indicator of whether you are a good couple is how you travel together. We know there'll be surprises, but plan ahead and you'll avoid disaster on that first voyage out of town.

Everything is going along swimmingly. Romance, laughter, respect—your new relationship is good. You think your first trip for two might be just the ticket—just the thing to sweeten the deal. What could be better than sharing the sunshine with your beau, or skiing the slopes with your lady love? When it comes to romantic partners traveling together and sharing a vacation for the first time, you should take a few moments beforehand to make sure it will be a trip to treasure rather than a disaster you'd rather forget.

Keep It Simple

Traveling can tell a lot about a person, as leaving our comfort zone can bring out the best and worst in us. Sometimes quirks, daily rituals, and our ability (or inability) to roll with the punches become glaringly obvious. Keep your vacation plans simple and comfortable by bypassing a camping trip without bathrooms or a road trip without air-conditioning. Definitely avoid a meet-and-greet with the family. Save the adventures and big-deal introductions for another time.

Set the Tempo

Pick a fairly close location so you can spend more time together, rather than devoting a huge chunk of your romantic recess to getting there. The whole travel process can be stressful, with deadlines, flights to catch, and unfamiliarity with the destination sending some people into a confused stupor or an irritating spell. So save that 14-hour flight or lengthy road trip for another time, and keep the travel time short and sweet. Ideally, the length of your getaway should be three to four days. You want to get to know each other a little better without using up all your vacation days. The key is to relax while leaving your new flame wanting more.

What’s the Plan?

Discuss your getaway objectives before heading out on holiday, to make sure that you are on the same page. It’s no fun if you are hoping for a stress-free loaf on the beach while your mate is anticipating a two-hour uphill hike to Lookout Point. If you aren’t excited about the Computer Geek Convention, speak up. Discuss what you would like to accomplish, or forget about, on your getaway, to make sure your destination has something for both of you. Plan to compromise and let each other enjoy some personal time. There is no rule that you must stay side by side every moment of the day and night. While your mate hits the green, you can relax at the spa, and then you can meet each other for a romantic dinner.

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