Ladies: 9 Reasons You Should Date a Nerd

Largely ignored in high school and overshadowed by their cooler classmates, nerds have something special to offer in the dating world. Namely, they are interesting, quirky and will treat you like gold.

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Ladies, is the reason you aren’t getting very far in the dating world because you haven’t let go of the girl you were in high school? We know it’s a stereotype, but sometimes women pine after the rebellious cool guy, the one that mothers hate and girlfriends envy. While we’re driving ourselves crazy to impress Mr. Cool, the undiscovered nerd is standing in the shadows waiting to be noticed.

You know who we’re talking about, right? We’re referring to that bespeckled guy that you overlooked so many years ago because he wasn’t cool. Well, brace yourself for revenge of the nerds, because this soft-spoken loner is smart, sincere and will genuinely be nice to you. If you haven’t given a second look to the guy that looks like your former Chemistry tutor, perhaps you should delve deeper into this untapped resource.

Maybe the comic book expert with the closetful of costumes for next month’s convention is a little much. But those guys who walk the line between nerd and die-hard geek could use just a little luring out of their shell. Underneath all of those odd hobbies and quirky friends, these men can not only hold a conversation, but they also champion a woman with an education, a large vocabulary and a mind of her own.

If you have never dated a nerd, consider the following 9 reasons why you might just need a geek in your life.

1. He’s Heartfelt

Although sometimes awkward, geeks are usually well-meaning and sincere. He wants to get to know you and feel comfortable with a real lady. Surely, it is quite a difference from the lonely nights with Lara Croft from Tomb Raider, but a welcome change nonetheless.

2. He’s a Smarty Pants

Nerds usually are intelligent, can hold a good job and are overall self-sufficient. He’s probably responsibly planned for and invested in his future well before any of us have started. Smart guys can also open your horizons and can offer a perspective or education about world news, politics or obscure movie trivia.

3. You’ll get the Star Treatment

Often overlooked, these guys can appreciate a woman when they get one. Likely to be a priority in his life, they show you off to their friends, call when they say they will and will most likely impress Mom and Dad. Okay, so maybe you will be number 2 or 3 after the computer games and geek trivia, but you won’t be on a long list of ladies vying for some time with him.

4. He’s Open to Suggestions

You can offer tips on fashions, hairstyles or even music of present day. They realize that they could use the help when replacing the acid washed jeans or “spiked” hair from the days of yore and welcome their newfound hipness.

5. He’s a Gentleman

A far cry from the smarmy creep at the bar, nerds are more likely to debate your favorite Superman villain than only go after that “one thing.” With little less relationship experience, his naïve fumbling with romantic advances come off as endearing and honest.

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We live in America where everyone "has" to have that model look, if you don't look like a model you have no chance dating. Its really sad in my opinion, you have these women out there dating these jerks because they look good but inside they treat them like crap. Thats one think I will never understand about people, its no longer a relationship anymore, its more of a "look what I have and you don't" its not about women don't see "nerds" its them seeing how they live. I'm still young so may be wrong women are seeking more of a thrill ride then to settle down on how I see it at this time in my life. They would prefer that hot guy that everyone is drooling over then the lone guy that you know can excell in life and job and support her. Anymore it all about that "Trophy" in the end anymore.

- August 18, 2008 12:15 PM

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The author took a very specific type of person and formed a stereotype around them calling that type of person a 'nerd'. Everyone's definition is different, but there are some truths in the article as well as fallacies. It seems the point was to persuade women to consider this stereotype of a person over the opposing stereotype (i.e. the jock). I would imagine this article was written because the stereotypical woman who is attracted to jocks would be oblivious to the benefits a nerd has to offer because looks muddle the equation. See? I can make sweeping, generic blanket statements, tooSurprised! In the end, they don't solve anything.

If it is true that the 'nerd' described in the atricle is very self aware, why would they be shy (wouldn't they be confident in who they are?)? Why would they want to be with women who 'haven't let go of the girl they were in high school': i.e. someone who is too immature to be in a serious relationship (I realize that women mature faster then men generally, so this excludes the women who were already mentally and emotionally mature in high school)? This article can be taken with a grain of salt much like all the other sagely wisdom on stereotypes. Lastly, does the person in the picture and I share a resemblance, or is it just me?

- July 05, 2008 01:37 PM

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"We’re referring to that bespeckled guy that you overlooked so many years ago because he wasn’t cool...."

As a nerdette I have to point this one out. I believe the word is "bespectacled" not covered with dots.... Tongue out

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- June 22, 2008 06:52 PM

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