He Got You What?! What his Holiday Gift Means

Okay, the gifts are in and it's time to start decoding them. Does his gift indicate that he's into you? That he's thoughtful? Or maybe that you need to find a new love interest?

He Got You What?! What his Holiday Gift Means
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It’s the season for spending time with friends and family, decorating your home and holiday gifts! Have you ever wondered what your guy’s gift really means? From candles to jewelry, this holiday gift guide will tell you exactly what secrets the holiday gift from your sweetheart is hiding!

A Gift Certificate

To most girls, unwrapping a gift certificate is kind of a bummer. However, if the gift certificate is for your favorite store or restaurant, it’s a good sign! It means your guy has been paying attention and although he didn’t pick a specific thing, he wants you to have something you will really love.

There is a down side to gift certificates, though! If the certificate is from a store you don’t really enjoy (like a home improvement store or something similar), it means he has no clue! Either you haven’t dropped enough hints or he didn’t feel like taking the time to really think about your gift! If this is a brand new relationship, perhaps your guy just doesn’t know what you’re into yet. However, if you’ve been together for more than 6 months, he should have a hunch by now!

Pampering Items

If your guy gets you candles, a bath set, a day at the spa or something similar – he gets bonus points! He cares about the way you feel and wants to pamper you. If he gets your favorite scent or flavor, he really gets bonus points! Unless you slipped a wish list under his pillow, this means that he knows you well and thinks you deserve the best things in life!

Kitchen Towels

If your guy got you kitchen towels, take all of his points away! Unless, of course these are the latest and trendiest kitchen towels ever and you have really wanted them for months! Kitchen towels and other house items like dishes, furniture or similar things are alright if you’ve been with your guy for a while or you’ve asked for them. If your long-term boyfriend or hubby buys gifts like this, it may mean that he wants you to have the best for your home. However, if it’s a new relationship, you may need to perfect the art of gift ‘hinting!’

Jewelry

When your guy buys you jewelry, you can be sure that you mean a lot to him! Bling-bling isn’t cheap and guys who ‘just don’t care’ usually will not spend money on jewelry for their girl. When a guy buys a woman jewelry, it usually means he is committed and in it for the long haul. This is especially true if he buys diamonds, which really are a girl’s best friend!

Chocolate or Candy and Roses

This is a great gift for a guy to get a girl he likes but hasn’t known for very long. Similarly, many guys get this gift when they just don’t know what else to get. If you’re in a brand new relationship and your guy buys you chocolates and roses, it means he really likes you and wants to get to know you better. Roses and chocolates are always a great gift for women and if he gets you this, he’s probably looking for the key to your heart!

A New Puppy or Other Animal

Imagine untying a bow to find an adorable, furry face looking up at you! For a newer relationship, it’s a great sign when a guy gives a puppy or other cute animal as a gift. This means that he wants to share a responsibility with you and he’s probably fairly committed to the relationship.

Getting a gift is really exciting, especially if it’s a gift from the guy you really care about or love. Although many guys are notorious for being terrible ‘gift-getters,’ most usually put some thought into gifts for girls they care about. By determining what your guy’s gift really means, you can see just how much thought he really put into your holiday gift!

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Serveal years ago i once was dated a gentleman and his gift said a lot. first we only went out a few times an we enjoy the time shared but the 1 gift was in bad taste too me . I know it the thought that count's that what lose me.it was pj's, footspa ,bath gift set,some victors secret linginre they were cute only if you like stripper ware,[bad taste] that right there; told what was going on in his mind . It's not what i had in mind of him giving as a gift ,he was way out there in left field. mind you i had not dated him that long. but i told him thank you for the gift an left him an the gift. so in short term i was the gift to unwarp? I was not feeling it.
- December 25, 2009 05:44 PM

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If you're adding or subtracting points based on what a man buys you, you're single for a reason. Men are not great at buying gifts. It's not that they're careless or that they lack enough hints they just get told too many different things and women are rediculessly hard to buy for. For one women say insane thigns like "I don't need jewelry, just be there for me" or "Anything you get me will be fine" but the truth is everything is not fine and you want specific gifts that you're notoriously bad about telling us about. If you man buys you roses and chocolates, it could mean he's traditional, or that he's in the doghouse but doesn't think he makes jewelry-scale bailout money, or that you told him once you love it when he buys you flowers, or that he doesn't know what else to get, or that he likes things that remind him of his childhood. You have no clue and you're not going to guess right. Trying to decipher his secret code is only useful if your man has some kind of secret code. Men buy you things because they like to see you smile. Men never drop hints with gifts. Also men don't get your hints when you buy them gifts pointedly.

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Jesus, what is wrong with people now a days? You can't accept a gift without being labelled materialistic? That's it I'm cutting off all my gifts to bosses and friends because I don't want them to have other people think they are materialistic. Sheesh. People give because they like you. Simple as that. If he doesn't give, it doesn't always mean he is not serious. It means he is not open to sharing with you. That could be interpretted as lack of interest or plain stinginess. Either choice is boring. The fact that you get anything, shows love, interest and wanting to share. If you get nothing don't bi%ch about it. Realize he is not into you, selfishor scared. I give presents to my lover all the time, because I want him to smile and know I am thinking of him. But I would never give to a stingy calculating SOB anything...more than once...hehe. I can't help it giving is in my blood.
- February 13, 2009 03:56 PM

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