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“What do you do with it after the date? Leave it under his bed?” – D_Lion

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“I wouldn't take you to dinner regardless of what you wrote. ” – nightling

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“lol! I would speak with the sister when you get a chance. Good luck, JayJay. Thanks. Actually, it does seem that the other sisters are much more open and less guarded in their communication with ... ” – jayjay

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“The point is you got off easy. Be happy she's not wasting your time. ” – nightling

Join the “She does not want to be with me because I'm "too nice".” discussion

“You have no clue what went on behind closed doors. Stay out of that part. Do not trash him to other people. That part is none of your business, it is/was their relationship,not yours. You feel for ... ” – Lilycat

Join the “What can I do?” discussion

“This sounds to me like you made far too much unrequited interest in her. It is a big mistake to give to a dating more than that person is giving in return. It sounds to me like she had no respect ... ” – D_Lion

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“Until you get the self esteem issues in order, it won't make much difference if he (or anyone else) compliments you, because deep down you won't believe them anyway. You can change yourself, but ... ” – hazmat

Join the “My boyfriend never compliments me, but compliments others” discussion

“Many of the comments I have seen are about the content of Alec's article, and I have to agree with the ones who liked and admired it.  But it is also worth noting that he has an engaging writing ... ” – bobkey

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